Thursday, November 3, 2016

2016 Carols by Candlelight Picnic / Fisantekraal Community fundraiser


As part of their CSI, to raise funds for the Fisantekraal Community and the Fisantekraal Centre for Development, Talent Network invite you to participate in their 6th annual Carols by Candlelight at Avondale Garden, Protea Way, Durbanville, on Sunday 4 December 2016.

Last year they had approximately 2000 people attend this Durbanville community event and managed to raise in excess of R120 000. It is their aim to try and double this number this year, in support of the Fisantekraal Community.


Corporates are invited to sponsor the event by making a financial contribution, for which you will receive banner advertising on the evening and logo advertising in the song booklet. Should this be of interest to you, please email Monique de Wet on monique@talentnetwork.co.za for further information.

Tickets will be on sale at the gate on the evening. Adults – R50, Children 6 – 12 years R30, Children under 6 years FREE.

Bring a picnic and enjoy a memorable evening filled with Christmas Carols performed by the Protea Valley Church, and share in the joy of Christmas.

 

“As a non-profit with a vision to uplift the unemployed in the Durbanville area, we rely on the financial support of the community in order to offer affordable training to the unemployed. Operating as an affiliate of Learn to Earn, with the motto of “a hand up, not a hand down”, learners are required to pay a small commitment fee (less than 10% of the actual course cost) to ensure their full buy-in to the process”.

Meaningful relationships with the Durbanville community are vital for the continuation of FCD’s positive impact on the unemployed in our area”.

Further information on this worthy cause, please follow the video link below.


Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Corporate Mobile Massage Treatments




Introductory Special

Corporate Mobile
Aromatherapy & Massage Treatments
We bring our portable service directly to your offices


Durbanville & Surrounds
Mondays – Fridays, 9am – 4pm

Relax and unwind at the comfort of your desk or a designated office
& treat yourself to a de-stressing experience.

Whether you have muscular pains and discomfort, or simply just feel stressed, we will be able to provide you with the treatment you need. We have portable massage tables & a selection of healing essential oils.




Aromatherapy Massage Treatments offered:


30 minute Back, Neck and Shoulder at our desk - R150.00
45 minute Back, Neck and Shoulder with oils - R250.00
1 hour Full Body Treatment - R350.00

(Includes set up & travel time within a 15km radius)

Prices valid until 30 November 2016

Home based treatments are available for ladies only
Different rates, terms and conditions apply
For further information or to book a treatment, please contact Janine Tassi on
janinetassi@gmail.com or call 082 925 8438 / 021-976 2015


Friday, September 9, 2016

Ladies Mobile Aromatherapy & Massage Treatments


Come to your Senses and Women of Worth Durbanville (WOW) are offering
Ladies Mobile
Aromatherapy & Massage Treatments
We bring our portable service directly to you
Neck & Shoulder Corporate treatments are available for ladies and gents (group bookings preferable)

Durbanville & Surrounds
Mondays – Fridays, 9am – 7pm
Saturdays – mornings only

Relax and unwind in the comfort of your own home, hotel room or office
& treat yourself to a complete sensory experience.

Whether you have muscular pains and discomfort, have circulatory problems, or simply just feel stressed, our team of professional qualified therapists will be able to provide you with the treatment you need. We have portable massage tables & a selection of healing essential oils.


Aromatherapy Massage Treatments offered:

45 minute Back, Neck and Shoulder - R350.00
90 minute Full Body Treatment - R550.00
(Includes set up & travel time within a 15km radius)


Neck & Shoulder corporate treatments are available for ladies & gents
At your place of business (should you have facilities available)
Group bookings preferable by prior arrangement

For further information or to book a treatment, please contact Janine Tassi on
janinetassi@gmail.com or call 082 925 8438 / 021-976 2015

                   


Friday, July 29, 2016

Women’s Day Come to your Senses Workshop


(W.O.W) Women of Worth Durbanville presents a
Come to your Senses Workshop
How to put the spark back by getting out of your head and into your life

WOMEN’S DAY - Tuesday, 9 August, 10am – 1pm
Durbanville Golf Club, Sport Way, Durbanville

Come and enjoy this half-day escape, indulge in some food and wine, soak up the gorgeous view, and treat yourself to a complete sensory experience. 

Whether you’ve experienced a failed relationship, a transition, a trauma, or a loss,
by focusing on various sensory healing modalities, we will show you
how to embrace your self-worth, and take charge of your life.

Topics covered:
·         A word on relationships and getting on with your life
·         The art of sensuality
·         How food affects your mood and sensuality
·         Sensational recipes to seduce your pallet
·         Sensual Aromatherapy with bath / massage recipes and massage demo
·         Rhythmic dance and soulful music
·         Movies to celebrate life and awaken your spirit
·         Natural health, beauty and supplementation
·         Colour, art, sensory décor and table setting
·         Healing through creativity, journaling and quiet reflection
·         Personal image, grooming and wardrobe planning
R150 per person
Includes welcome refreshments, delicious savouries, workshop notes, tasters to tease your pallet, and lucky draw prizes. 
Cash bar available.
Dress Code: Smart casual. Wear something deep red or purple
Bring: A note pad and pen (notes will be emailed to you afterwards)

To book, please contact Janine Tassi on janinetassi@gmail.com or call 082 925 8438 / 021-976 2015
RSVP: By 5 August 2016

Image sourced from Pinterest

Trust and surrender


I have been going through such a lot of self-reflection lately. And let me tell you – up until recently it has not been pretty. In a nutshell, my ego was at war with my soul. I put up my white flag every now and again, because my soul always wins. I know this sounds really 'other worldly', but from a religious / spiritual / philosophical / psychological perspective, putting my faith and trust in a higher power takes a lot of surrendering.

I pray a lot, asking God, the universe and my guardian angels for emotional guidance and spiritual protection. But the thing is, as a simple human being with an often over-inflated ego, I have this idea in my head of how I feel the play of my life should be performed and more often than not, it ends in a totally different way.

So when my soul speaks to me, I am told to accept the way the solution has been presented to me even if I feel that it is not what I asked for. I need to remember that I have very limited vision and can only see a very small part of what is happening. Only a higher power is able to see the bigger picture and therefore able to provide me with the perfect solution. This is where my faith and trust come in. I need to believe in this higher power and myself, and know that everything that is happening is for my highest good.

All I can do is live in my truth every day. There is nothing I must do except to align with the Truth in the moment, and trust that everything else will take care of itself.  Solutions and resolutions will find me once I align.

It is going to take me a lot of trust and surrender to live this way for the rest of my life, letting life unfold for me rather than directing it myself with my very busy mind.  But, I am willing, and I am sure, that as time passes by, I will see and understand that what I perceive to be another problem will be the perfect solution to the situation I am in, and that it will bring many blessings and opportunities for me!

Trust and surrender is my motto when it comes to life’s little challenges.

Images sourced from Pinterest


Fall in love with yourself


Understanding love has always been a huge part of my journey. But now I find myself in a position where I finally celebrate and honour my self-worth. And I come to this conclusion: Real love never judges, it accepts unconditionally. It is kind. It is respectful. It is considerate. Yes, we read this everywhere, but why then do we constantly set ourselves up for failure in that department when it comes to the opposite sex?! Or even ourselves, for that matter.

How can we judge another or even feel rejected if they do not know what love actually is. If this is true, then perhaps it stands to reason that they do not have the capacity to love in that manner. They do not know how to provide nourishment and emotional support to another soul, to acknowledge someone else’s feelings and emotions, to feel empathy. It really doesn’t matter how wonderful you are or not, if they are incapable of loving on that level, they will be unable to love another. So ego is not even at question here. Love comes from the soul.

Here’s another interesting angle of mine about unconditional love for a romantic partner. One has to learn to love oneself, unconditionally, in order to give love and receive love in return right? Why? It’s quite simple really. If you love yourself unconditionally, without any judgement, you trust and respect yourself, and know your self-worth and you honour your values. You live in God and God lives in you. You then live in unconditional love for everyone. If you then find yourself meeting someone special, and falling in love, that person can only return that kind of love, on that level, if they honour and respect themselves in the same way.

What I value the most in a romantic relationship is trust, respect, integrity, loyalty. After that comes quality time, affection and emotional support, amongst a few other simple soulful things. If those values are not honoured, my soul does not feel nourished. And my self-worth is high enough, that I only seek to align myself spiritually with people who nourish my soul.


Images sourced from Pinterest


Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Women of Worth Durbanville - a worthy cause


Women of Worth Durbanville (W.O.W) is a community support network, primarily aimed at women going through abuse and relationship trauma or battling to let go of pain and grief, providing them with emotional support, concrete guidance, useful contacts and a healthy time-out. 

Currently, we have a facebook page, which provides daily inspiration and useful information relating to emotional wellbeing. I have received quite a few requests from women who need contact information and guidance. I run regular support group gatherings and time-out sessions, which I advertise on MeetUp.com as well as on Facebook.

It's astounding to note, that since it's inception just 2 weeks ago (12 July to be exact), and creating my facebook page, my 'LIKES' have grown to over 900!

This illustrates the fact that there is such a huge need for emotional support for women who have been abused or going through a messy divorce and don't have the financial means to support themselves.

In my findings over the last 15 years, and having gone through almost every conceivable form of abuse you can imagine, I have experienced a shortage of emotional support groups in my area and within my socio-economic sector, which cater for my budget. Although I live in a well-respected, middle-upper class area, I have never earned enough to support my trauma counselling. Coupled to this, at the time of going through my very traumatic and abusive divorce 5 years ago, I was left with absolutely nothing. I was unemployed and my ex-husband took everything, as everything was in his name. I would have had to go to high court to fight for what was rightfully my share, but I did not have the financial means to do so. My ex husband was also a drug addict, which I offered to support him through, but I was not prepared to sit at a governmental institution with individuals who had half their teeth missing, hadn't bathed for days or had nothing more than a Grade 7 certificate. And I could not afford the costs of an expensive lawyer or psychologist, which left me feeling frustrated and helpless.

I have since realised that there are thousands of women in exactly the same position. Thousands of women who have a middle-upper class standard of living, but who are financially strapped. Thousands of women who can't find employment, who can't afford their child's school fees, who can't afford medical aid, who's husbands have left them with nothing after a divorce, and thousands of women who can't afford basic psychological treatment. For a woman, not being able to cope with her emotional well-being or trauma has a seriously negative impact on her entire life-style. It affects her work (if she is lucky to be employed), it affects her children, it affects her family and all her relationships, and has a negative impact on her performance as a respectable, educated human being.

This support network is directed towards those women. Hopefully, with the support of the Durbanville Community for starters, through hosting networking and fund-raising events, we will be able to make a difference - not only in the lives of these women, but in uplifting Durbanville as a community. My personal goal, is to eventually open a Women of Worth Durbanville Crisis and Healing Centre.

In my personal capacity, I have developed a sensory healing programme called Come to your Senses – giving courses and workshops to teach women how to get out of their heads and into their lives. 

I have been a writer for most of life, having worked as a magazine editor for Vital Health Foods for many years, and a script writer/online content producer for Dr Michael Mol at Hello Doctor.com 

I am also a qualified aromatherapist, events coordinator, charity fund-raiser and PRO. 

Find me on LinkedIn as Janine Tassi, and on Facebook as Women of Worth Durbanville. You can also find my Women of worth Durbanville support group on MeetUp.com 

https://www.facebook.com/Women-of-Worth-Durbanville-2082248128667532/


http://www.meetup.com/W-O-W-Women-of-Worth-Durbanville/




Laughter is the best medicine


For us laughing seems so natural, but the funny thing is that humans are one of the only species that laughs. Laughter is actually a complex response that involves many of the same skills used in solving problems.  

Human beings love to laugh, and the average adult laughs 17 times a day. Humans love to laugh so much that there are actually industries built around laughter. Jokes, sitcoms and comedians are all designed to get us laughing, because laughing feels good.

Laughter is a great thing - that's why we've all heard the saying, "Laughter is the best medicine." There is strong evidence that laughter can actually improve health and help fight disease.

WHAT IS LAUGHTER?
First of all, laughter is not the same as humour. Laughter is the physiological response to humour. Laughter consists of two parts: a set of gestures and the production of a sound. When we laugh, the brain pressures us to conduct both those activities simultaneously. When we laugh heartily, changes occur in many parts of the body, even the arm, leg and trunk muscles.

Under certain conditions, our bodies perform what the Encyclopedia Britannica describes as "rhythmic, vocalized, expiratory and involuntary actions", better known as laughter. Fifteen facial muscles contract and stimulation of the zygomatic major muscle (the main lifting mechanism of your upper lip) occurs. Meanwhile, the respiratory system is upset by the epiglottis half-closing the larynx, so that air intake occurs irregularly, making you gasp. In extreme circumstances, the tear ducts are activated, so that while the mouth is opening and closing and the struggle for oxygen intake continues, the face becomes moist and often red (or purple). The noises that usually accompany this bizarre behaviour range from sedate giggles to boisterous guffaws.

Behavioural neurobiologist and pioneering laughter researcher Robert Provine jokes that he has encountered one major problem in his study of laughter. The problem is that laughter disappears just when he is ready to observe it, especially in the laboratory. One of his studies looked at the sonic structure of laughter. He discovered that all human laughter consists of variations on a basic form that consists of short, vowel-like notes repeated every 210 milliseconds. Laughter can be of the "ha-ha-ha" variety or the "ho-ho-ho" type but not a mixture of both, he says. Provine also suggests that humans have a "detector" that responds to laughter by triggering other neural circuits in the brain, which, in turn, generates more laughter. This explains why laughter is contagious.

Humour researcher Peter Derks describes laughter response as "a really quick, automatic type of behaviour." "In fact, how quickly our brain recognizes the incongruity that lies at the heart of most humour and attaches an abstract meaning to it determines whether we laugh," he says.


LAUGHTER ON THE BRAIN
The physiological study of laughter has its own name: gelotology. And we know that certain parts of the brain are responsible for certain human functions. For example, emotional responses are the function of the brain's largest region, the frontal lobe. But researchers have learned that the production of laughter is involved with various regions of the brain. While the relationship between laughter and the brain is not fully understood, researchers are making some progress.

For example, Derks traced the pattern of brainwave activity in subjects responding to humorous material. Subjects were hooked up to an electroencephalograph (EEG) and their brain activity was measured when they laughed. In each case, the brain produced a regular electrical pattern. Within four-tenths of a second of exposure to something potentially funny, an electrical wave moved through the cerebral cortex, the largest part of the brain. If the wave took a negative charge, laughter resulted. If it maintained a positive charge, no response was given, researchers said.

During the experiment, researchers observed the following specific activities:
·         The left side of the cortex (the layer of cells that covers the entire surface of the forebrain) analyzed the words and structure of the joke.
·         The brain's large frontal lobe, which is involved in social emotional responses, became very active.
·         The right hemisphere of the cortex carried out the intellectual analysis required to "get" the joke.
·         Brainwave activity then spread to the sensory processing area of the occipital lobe (the area on the back of the head that contains the cells that process visual signals).
·         Stimulation of the motor sections evoked physical responses to the joke.

This is different from what happens with emotional responses. Emotional responses appear to be confined to specific areas of the brain, while laughter seems to be produced via a circuit that runs through many regions of the brain. (This means that damage to any of these regions can impair one's sense of humour and response to humour, experts say.)

THE LIMBIC SYSTEM
When we look more closely at the areas of the brain involved with laughter, the limbic system seems to be central. The limbic system is a network of structures located beneath the cerebral cortex. This system is important because it controls some behaviours, which are essential to the life of all mammals (finding food, self-preservation).

Interestingly, the same structures found in the human limbic system can also be found in the brains of evolutionary ancient animals such as the alligator. In the alligator, the limbic system is heavily involved in smell and plays an important role in defending territory, hunting and eating prey. In humans, the limbic system is more involved in motivation and emotional behaviours.

While the structures in this highly developed part of the brain interconnect, research has shown that the amygdala, a small almond-shaped structure deep inside the brain, and the hippocampus, a tiny, seahorse-shaped structure, seem to be the main areas involved with emotions. The amygdala connects with the hippocampus as well as the medial dorsal nucleus of the thalamus. These connections enable it to play an important role in the mediation and control of major activities, such as friendship, love and affection and on the expression of mood. The hypothalamus, particularly its median part, has been identified as a major contributor to the production of loud, uncontrollable laughter.


WHAT’S FUNNY?
Laughter is triggered when we find something humorous. There are three traditional theories about what we find humorous:

1.    The incongruity theory suggests that humour arises when logic and familiarity are replaced by things that don't normally go together. Researcher Thomas Veatch says a joke becomes funny when we expect one outcome and another happens. When a joke begins, our minds and bodies are already anticipating what's going to happen and how it's going to end. That anticipation takes the form of logical thought intertwined with emotion and is influenced by our past experiences and our thought processes. When the joke goes in an unexpected direction, our thoughts and emotions suddenly have to switch gears. We now have new emotions, backing up a different line of thought. In other words, we experience two sets of incompatible thoughts and emotions simultaneously. We experience this incongruity between the different parts of the joke as humorous.

2.    The superiority theory comes into play when we laugh at jokes that focus on someone else's mistakes, stupidity or misfortune. We feel superior to this person, experience a certain detachment from the situation and so are able to laugh at it.

3.    The relief theory is the basis for a device movie-makers have used effectively for a long time. In action films or thrillers where tension is high, the director uses comic relief at just the right times. He builds up the tension or suspense as much as possible and then breaks it down slightly with a side comment, enabling the viewer to relieve himself of pent-up emotion, just so the movie can build it up again! Similarly, an actual story or situation creates tension within us. As we try to cope with two sets of emotions and thoughts, we need a release and laughter is the way of cleansing our system of the built-up tension and incongruity. (According to Dr. Lisa Rosenberg, humour, especially dark humour, can help workers cope with stressful situations. "The act of producing humour, of making a joke, gives us a mental break and increases our objectivity in the face of overwhelming stress," she says.)

LAUGHTER AND HEALTH
We've long known that the ability to laugh is helpful to those coping with major illness and the stress of life's problems. But researchers are now saying laughter can do a lot more. It can basically bring balance to all the components of the immune system, which helps us fight off diseases. As we mentioned earlier, laughter reduces levels of certain stress hormones. In doing this, laughter provides a safety valve that shuts off the flow of stress hormones, and the fight-or-flight compounds that swing into action in our bodies when we experience stress, anger or hostility. These stress hormones suppress the immune system, increase the number of blood platelets (which can cause obstructions in arteries) and raise blood pressure. When we're laughing, natural killer cells that destroy tumours and viruses increase, as do Gamma-interferon (a disease-fighting protein), T-cells, which are a major part of the immune response, and B-cells, which make disease-destroying antibodies.

Laughter may lead to hiccuping and coughing, which clears the respiratory tract by dislodging mucous plugs. Laughter also increases the concentration of salivary immunoglobulin A, which defends against infectious organisms entering through the respiratory tract.

What may surprise you even more is the fact that researchers estimate that laughing 100 times is equal to 10 minutes on the rowing machine or 15 minutes on an exercise bike. Laughing can be a total body workout! Blood pressure is lowered, and there is an increase in vascular blood flow and in oxygenation of the blood, which further assists healing. Laughter also gives your diaphragm and abdominal, respiratory, facial, leg and back muscles a workout. That's why you often feel exhausted after a long bout of laughter -- you've just had an aerobic workout!

The psychological benefits of humour are quite amazing. People often store negative emotions, such as anger, sadness and fear, rather than expressing them. Laughter provides a way for these emotions to be harmlessly released. Laughter is cathartic. That's why some people who are upset or stressed out go to a funny movie or a comedy club, so they can laugh the negative emotions away (these negative emotions, when held inside, can cause biochemical changes that can affect our bodies).

Increasingly, mental health professionals are suggesting "laughter therapy," which teaches people how to laugh, openly, at things that aren't usually funny and to cope in difficult situations by using humour. Following the lead of real-life funny-doc Patch Adams (portrayed by Robin Williams in a movie by the same name), doctors and psychiatrists are becoming more aware of the therapeutic benefits of laughter and humour.

 

Here are some tips to help you put more laughter in your life:
  • Figure out what makes you laugh and do it (or read it or watch it) more often.
  • Develop your own sense of humour. Maybe even take a class to learn how to be a better comic, or at least a better joke-teller at that next party.
  • Be funny every chance you get -- as long as it's not at someone else's expense! 

Wednesday, July 20, 2016

Drugged and abused by my husband


“Babe. I am miserable and I cannot take this anymore. I want a divorce.” I had been feeling miserable for nearly two years, constantly begging him to go for marriage counselling with me, but he refused. This was back in 2009. He had become so distant and reclusive, never spending any family time with me and our little boy. He would spend an unusual amount of time in his workshop instead, working on his hobbies, almost obsessively. He would only come to bed in the early hours of the morning and I could never understand how he managed to stay awake for that long. Until he responded to my declaration, and said, “Janine, I think I know why you have been feeling this way. I have a confession to make. I have been using Crystal Meth for the last two years.” At first I wasn’t all that shocked, as I was aware of my husband’s history of occasional marijuana use, and merely replied by suggesting he go for rehab, but that I still wanted a divorce.

But then the real shocker came, when he said, “But Janine, there is something else. I have been drugging you with Crystal Meth for the last year.” He explained it was not his intention to harm me, but rather to ‘bring us closer together’. He thought it would improve my libido, so that we could be intimate more often. He would simply sprinkle a little powdered Meth into my drinks on the odd occasion. Perhaps a couple of times a week. Nothing hectic. You know.

I was mortified, to say the least. He chose to take my power away from me so that he could control me for his own personal gain. Why? Does Crystal Meth do that to you? Does it affect your cognitive ability to reason and rationalise? Not only was the act devious in itself, it was criminal. So why did I not press charges? Because I still loved him. And I was naïve. And I sincerely believed that he would get help and stop using. I supported him throughout his drug counselling, but my feelings about my failed marriage had not changed, and the damage had already been done. And when I asked for a divorce again several months later, out of spite, he spiked my drink again. I realised this, when during that particular morning, I was feeling exceptionally alert, with terrible heart palpitations. I went to SANCA immediately for a drug test, which came back positive. After that, I sought drug and divorce counselling with well-known Dr Elize Beeby in Cape Town. She put me on a detox programme, just to ensure my body was not becoming addicted to the drugs my husband had given me. But strangely, the only effect I remember it having on me at the time my husband was drugging me, was my mood swings and my unusual new hobby and obsession with online dating, due to my increased libido.

Now here’s the kicker. At the time my husband claimed to have been drugging me, I started using a new slimming pill, called Simply Slim. Simply Slim was wonderful. It helped me lose weight, it gave me loads of energy, it kept me awake at night, and, to put it mildly, it sent my hormones into overdrive. It also gave me a very dry mouth, to the point that I was developing mouth ulcers beyond the extreme. Simply Slim was subsequently removed from the market. The ingredient, Bitter Orange Extract is known to have the same characteristics of Ephedrine but in an “all-natural” form. What I realised afterwards, is that Crystal Meth has the same affect, so I was consuming a double dose of Ephedra, without even knowing it.

After finally serving him with the divorce papers in 2010, I could not afford to move out, and had to endure a lot of psychological and emotional abuse from my soon-to-be ex-husband. He smashed my laptop, poured drain acid over half my wardrobe, wet me with the hosepipe at night, terrorised me, stalked me, woke me up about seven times a night, locked me out of the house, stopped contributing financially, called me the most horrible names, including his personal favourite, “mother fucker”, and threated to kill me. He would hide the car keys, or remove a cable, so that I couldn’t go anywhere. The final straw came when he destroyed the electronics, took the wheels off, took the lock out of the door, and filed the car keys down, so that there was no way I could have the car repaired. All this, to take my power away and control me and get back at me for wanting to leave him.

I was very frightened of him, sometimes going into panic attacks. He had no respect for my boundaries, and didn’t understand the word ‘no’ or ‘stop’. I eventually took out a protection order against him, but for him to be arrested and locked up he would have had to get physically abusive with me, which he never did. And every time the police would show up, his behaviour was somewhat grandiose and pompous, which I couldn’t fathom out. I remember, on one occasion, him even admitting to the police that he was using Crystal, saying, “Can you blame me, having to live with this …” The police eventually got tired of all my calls – as domestic violence is on the bottom of their list of ‘calls to action’. So for my own self-preservation, I moved out in March 2011, with my 6-year old child, with no permanent job and no vehicle. I had to hire a vehicle for two months before I could afford to buy my own vehicle, maxing out my credit card and having to borrow money from family. It didn’t stop him from harassing me and terrorising me though. Even a year after my divorce went through in August 2011. I had to call the police on numerous occasions to remove him from my property. I can honestly say, that of all the traumatic experiences that I have had in my life (and believe me, I have had quite a few in my 45 years), this one tops it. Because it is not the person you are dealing with. It’s the drug. And the effects of drugs are unpredictable.

Side effects of Crystal Meth

Beside the physical effects of Meth, the psychological effects were the most traumatising for me. Short-term effects can include euphoria, anxiety, increased libido, raised self-esteem and self-confidence, aggression, grandiosity (and he had plenty of that), hallucinations, excessive feelings of power and invincibility. Over an extended period of time, Crystal Methamphetamine use can lead to a host of serious health risks, severe depression, violent behaviour and suicide. It is said that over 20% of people addicted to methamphetamine develop a long-lasting psychosis resembling schizophrenia after quitting the drug. This condition persists for longer than six months and is often treatment resistant.


There is so much more I could share, but that would take a book – which I am busy writing. Bottom line: Trying to divorce or leave a Crystal Meth addict is not an easy endeavour. But with a lot of grit, tenacity, a will to survive and support from my friends and family, I succeeded. I am happy again, and my ex-husband appears to have stopped or slacked down with the drugs. I will never really know the truth. We are civil to one another at least, even cracking jokes from time to time (pardon the pun) – but I will never trust him again. I have lost all respect for him The experience has only made me that much stronger and wiser. Have I forgiven him? Yes. That was the only way for me to heal. Have I forgotten the life’s lessons I have learned? Not a chance!