Eating and sex may
be the only two acts that evoke all of man’s senses simultaneously, and both
provide an abundance of sustenance and pleasure. It is not surprising then that
some foods have been described as orgasmic. I am sure many of you have heard
the expression, “Ah, better than sex”, when someone eats chocolate. Let me
explain…
Scent attracts us like no other form of perception.
Take cinnamon, for example. Cinnamon may be a pretty useful aphrodisiac, and it
has been scientifically proven that men are most sexually aroused by the scent
of cinnamon buns. There was a
time when cinnamon was more expensive than silver. It’s been claimed to be
great for reducing the blood sugar levels, that can be a cause of decreased
libido.
In something as simple as preparing a dish, a true
sensualist is overwhelmed by the feeling of creating something so profoundly
delicious and exquisite. With every delicate slice, brush of olive oil or
butter, or mound of something decadent, a true sensualist will feel the
intimate explosion of flavours, deliciously melting in her mouth, leaving her
feeling completely satiated and spent. It the kind of thing that makes her
throw her head back, close her eyes, and moan.
Some foods are legendary for their claimed
aphrodisiacal properties: chocolate, for its stimulation of hormones; oysters,
for their resemblance of female anatomy; truffles, for their smell. It has been
said (I am not sure by whom) that truffles smell like sex.
But, without subjecting yourself to forbidden
fruits, if you want to add a little spice to your love life, whip out those
utensils, turn up the heat, add a little steam, and sample some of these
intoxicating kitchen aphrodisiacs!
Aniseed
Aniseed has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who
believed it had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increase your
desire.
Almonds
As a symbol of fertility throughout the ages, the aroma of almonds alone is
thought to induce passion in a female. Try serving Marzipan (almond paste) in
the shapes of fruits for a special after-dinner treat.
Avocados
It could be the sensuous pear shape or the rich flavor
of the fruit that gives avocado its aphrodisiac reputation. They do contain important fatty acids that
help with circulation.
Basil (sweet basil)
Basil is thought to stimulate the sex drive and boost fertility. It is also
said to produce a general sense of well-being for body and mind.
Caviar
Sturgeon eggs contain a large amount of vitamins and phosphorous. Try caviar
with vodka for a real experience if your budget allows it!
Chocolate
It’s no accident that chocolate is the gift
of love as it contains phenylethylamine (PEA), a chemical which is released in
the brain when you’re in love. The Aztecs
referred to chocolate “nourishment of the Gods.” Chocolate contains more
antioxidants than red wine. The secret for passion is to combine the two. Try a
glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate for a sensuous treat or even a
little espresso with chocolate.
Carrots
The phallic shaped carrot has been associated with stimulation since ancient
times and was used by early Middle Eastern royalty to aid seduction. With its
high beta-carotene content to boot, perhaps that’s some added justification for
a piece of carrot cake?
Coffee
Although too much caffeine is considered a depressant, small amounts of rich
dark coffee in special little demitasse cups are enough to stimulate both the
body and the mind. A little goes a long way, so consider an espresso before
embarking on an “all-nighter.”
Coriander (Cilantro seed)
The book of The Arabian nights tells a tale of a
merchant who had been childless for 40 years and but was cured by a concoction
that included coriander. That book is over 1000 years old so the history of
coriander as an aphrodisiac dates back far into antiquity. Cilantro was also
known to be used as an “appetite” stimulant.
Cucumbers
It has been found that women become aroused by the scent of cucumbers. Whether
that’s true or not, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to realize why these
long, cool vegetables are considered to be an aphrodisiac.
Liquorice
The Chinese have used liquorice
for medicinal purposes since ancient times. The essence of the Glycyrrhiza
glabra (liquorice) plant,
glycrrhizin, is 50 times sweeter than sugar. Chewing on bits of liquorice root is said to enhance love
and lust, and is particularly stimulating to woman.
Mustard
Believed to stimulate the sexual glands and increase desire, prepare a tenderloin
roast (fillet mignon) for two with a mustard and peppercorn sauce on a romantic
night.
Nutmeg
Nutmeg was highly prized by Chinese women as an aphrodisiac. In quantity nutmeg
is claimed to produce a hallucinogenic effect. A light sprinkling of the spice
in a warm pumpkin soup can help spice up your evening. According to Daniel Amen, MD, author of Sex
on the Brain, nutmeg is used in Indian medicine for enhancing desire. In one
animal study, an extract of nutmeg had the same effect on mating behavior as
Viagra.
Nuts
Whether you prefer walnuts, almonds or macadamias, nuts have had a reputation
as aphrodisiacs for centuries. During harvest festivals in Rome, maidens passed
out bowls of nuts as symbols of fertility.
Pepper
According to The Perfumed Garden (an ancient Arabic love manual), ground pepper
mixed with cardamom or lavender, galanga, musk, honey and ginger is a potent
topical aphrodisiac for men. As an aphrodisiac pepper is thought to stimulate
libido due to its invigorating and vasodilator action, increasing the volume of
blood vessels that irrigate the genitalia during a sexual act. You can use it
in combination with almonds and a glass of milk; almonds are also aphrodisiac
(contain arginine, an amino acid involved in the mechanism of erection). Milk
is a reputed aphrodisiac because it contains peptides that stimulate production
of endorphins.
Tomatoes
Known as love-apples by the French, the humble tomato may have been the real
culprit that got Adam and Eve kicked out of Eden. Fresh, ripe tomatoes, locally
grown and eaten in season are a very seductive food. Try them with a little
fresh mozzarella cheese and some basil.
Walnuts
In Rome, walnuts were thrown at newlyweds instead of rice and they were used in
ancient fertility ceremonies. I can’t imagine how painful that must have been!
Walnuts are high in omega-3 fatty acids, which are known to improve heart
health and circulation. Healthy blood circulation is essential for maintaining
an erection, so you do the math.
Wine
A glass or two of
wine can greatly enhance a romantic interlude. Wine relaxes and helps to
stimulate our senses. Drinking wine, in moderation, can be an erotic
experience. A moderate amount has been said to “arouse” but much more than that
amount will have the reverse affect.